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Florida Real Estate School
Larson Educational Services is the premier Florida real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
Larson Educational Services is the premier Naples real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
We get it, you became a real estate agent because you love to talk. But here’s a nugget of harsh truth: sometimes you have to listen as well. In fact, your entire career depends on your listening skills. Otherwise, how will you understand your clients’ needs and make all those sales? (Hey, at the very least try to pretend to listen.) Here are Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services’ simple listening techniques for effective communication:
Fight distraction and bad listening conditions.
Have you ever been out with friends and everyone is sitting at the table, faces turned down, with the blue glow of their cell phone illuminating their dead countenance? Don’t be that person. Put your phone on silent and give other people your full attention.
Come on, man. Just talk to the people you're with.
Show patience and don’t interrupt.
A pause doesn’t necessarily mean that the speaker is finished talking. Sometimes people are just looking for the right word or articulating their own thoughts to themselves before telling them to you. There are few things more frustrating in a conversation than feeling like you can’t pause for fear of being interrupted. Silence is one of your most underutilized conversational tools.
Listen between the lines.
If you take everything a person says at face value, then you’ll miss the majority of the information they make available to you. People often (unintentionally) hide their true thoughts or motives in the lines between their words.
Clarify what you are hearing.
Don’t be afraid to ask the other partner to put their thoughts into other words for your own understanding. While people often find it annoying when they’re interrupted by someone who only wants to talk about themselves, most people don’t mind being interrupted for a clarifying question; it shows that you care.
Watch for changing tone or volume of the speaker’s voice, facial expressions, gestures, and word emphasis.
These physical changes can signal emotional changes in the speaker’s mind. Pay attention to the conversation points at which these changes happen in order to better understand the speaker’s thought process, even if they are not explicitly telling you what they are thinking.
Picking up on subtle social cues can help improve all of your social interactions
Utilize these simple listening techniques to not only improve your negotiation skills, but also to provide better service to your clients. Check out part 1 here: part 1.
About Larson Educational Services:
Utilizing 30 years of real estate training and professional education experience, Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services is the premier provider of Florida real estate licensing, exam preparation, post-licensing, CAM licensing, mortgage loan originator licensing, and continuing education in Southwest Florida. Classes are available in Fort Myers, Naples, Sarasota, and online.
Larson Educational Services is the premier Florida real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
Brad Larson
Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services
Larson Educational Services is the premier Naples real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
Brad Larson
Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services
If you're not wearing a suit to the beach then you're just not living.
Florida Real Estate School
Larson Educational Services is the premier Naples real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
Brad Larson
Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services
If you're not wearing a suit to the beach then you're just not living.
Larson Educational Services is the premier Naples real estate school and education provider. Family-owned and operated, we will assist you with every aspect of your Florida real estate career with our Florida approved Pre-Licensing, Exam Prep, Post-Licensing and Continuing Education courses. Through our top-notch classroom courses and online training, you can fulfill all the Florida education requirements.
Brad Larson
Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services
We get it, you became a real estate agent because you love to talk. But here’s a nugget of harsh truth: sometimes you have to listen as well. In fact, your entire career depends on your listening skills. Otherwise, how will you understand your clients’ needs and make all those sales? (Hey, at the very least try to pretend to listen.) Here are the first 5 of Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services’ 10 simple listening techniques for effective communication:
Prepare questions and remarks in advance to free your mind to listen.
Have you ever talked to someone who you know is just waiting for you to stop talking so they can say something? Don’t be one of those people. Channel your inner lawyer and prepare some conversation points before speaking with your client.
Exercise emotional control.
No, you’re not a robot. But you can keep negotiations civil and favorable to your interests if you keep your emotions in check.
You can exercise emotional control without becoming a robot.
Remain open and avoid jumping to conclusions; limit your own talking.
Limit your assumptions when you head into negotiations. When you let the other party do the talking they’ll usually give plenty of talking points, just make sure that you…
Take selective notes on the most important points.
No, taking notes during a conversation doesn’t necessarily make you look like a psychopath, just make sure your conversation partner knows what you’re doing.
Give the speaker your conscious attention with good eye contact.
Giving someone your undivided attention lets them know that they are important to you. And regarding the eye contact thing: again, don’t take it to psychopathic levels, just let your partner know that you care about what they’re saying.
Okay, you're overdoing it.
Utilize these simple listening techniques to not only improve your negotiation skills, but also to provide better service to your clients. Check back next time for part 2.
About Larson Educational Services:
Utilizing 30 years of real estate training and professional education experience, Florida real estate school Larson Educational Services is the premier provider of Florida real estate licensing, exam preparation, post-licensing, CAM licensing, mortgage loan originator licensing, and continuing education in Southwest Florida. Classes are available in Fort Myers, Naples, Sarasota, and online.